26 Nov 3 Ways To Stand Out At A Singles Event
3 Ways To Stand Out At A Singles Event | Reading time: 2 mins
Most people just talk about the usual, boring, same old same old nonsense. Boring! So standing out isn’t that hard. It’s actually really easy to stand out at a singles event.
Here’s 3 Ways To Stand Out At A Singles Event:
1. Hugs, high fives, and first pumps
When was the last time you gave a guy a hi five, or a girl a hug, or even a fist pump?
2. Set the frame!
This sets the frame of the interaction: fun, relaxed, and no pressure (also a sneaky way to establish physical touch).
3. Then focus on emotions…
People love being around people who make them feel good. Avoid negative comments or energy: “I’m tired” or “I’ve had a long day” or complaining or moaning.
4. Tell stories!
Instead be a good story teller. Funny, silly, weird, crazy. Tell stories. Focus on emotions moving UP and UP and UP. More FUN, more FUN, more FUN.
5. Finally, drop the nickname bomb
Let’s say she loves cookies. “I’m saving you as The Cookie Monster.” It’s fun and silly. And a little “inside joke” only the two of you know. Seriously powerful.
Bonus: To make the event super effective, I always recommend exchanging numbers at the event, and texting there and then too.
Guarantee to stand out at singles event:
1. High five