07 Oct How To Be Fearless
How To Be Fearless | Reading Time: 3 mins
Today we’re talking about How To Be FEARLESS!
Here’s the key: I want you to take your fear and turn it into action!
I have a question for you: Are you someone who suffers from fear, approach anxiety, fear of rejection, fear that you’re good enough?
When you go out, do you experience feelings of self doubt, maybe even self hatred, shyness? What about other negative thoughts, such as nervousness? Trust me, I’ve been there.
It’s easy because the fears of your past experiences have a profound effect on your NOW. They have a profound effect on your self-expression. They have a profound effect on your ability to let go and have fun. They have a profound effect on the very person you’re talking to.
But most importantly, they have an effect on your ability to put into ACTION what you’re learning in my Programmes.
The question is: To what extent is your fear actually keeping you from getting BETTER RESULTS?
Here’s some of the biggest comments I get from the SBS Community:
“Kam, I’m afraid of getting rejected…”
“Kam, I’m afraid of approaching that attractive girl…”
“Kam, I’m afraid coming across desperate…”
“Kam, I’m afraid of running out of things to say…”
“Kam, I’m afraid of that other guy she’s here with…”
“Kam, I’m afraid I’m not good enough…”
“Kam, I’m afraid of the other people that are going to judge me…”
“Kam, I’m afraid I’m a loser, I’m inexperienced…”
Whatever it is, being fearless is going to help you CONQUER THAT FEAR.
So let me ask you this question: Why don’t you already have… the girl you want, the guy you want, the body you want, the job you want, the happiness you want, the life you want?
I would probably guess it has to do with ONE simple thing: FEAR.
Now, before we dig further into How To Be Fearless and how it’s going to help you (and why it’s 100% CRITICAL for you to understand this), let’s look at fear, and UNDERSTAND IT. First off…
What is FEAR? Fear is a survival mechanism. Fear is inevitable. Fear is an emotional ISOLATOR. Fear is important. FEAR IS NECESSARY.
Fear keeps you safe, but not only that, it does something else that is even more important: It wakes us up, it drives us, it motivates us. If it wasn’t for fear, we would accomplish NOTHING!
Now the question is: What do YOU do with fear? Are you going to run away? If you do, fear will come back. You can try to ignore it, suppress it, and drown it, but it will always be there.
You can try to overcompensate and out hustle the fear, but it will always come back. You can try to hide from the fear. You can tuck yourself away in the safety of your comfort zone. But then, one day, you will look up and you will ask yourself:
“What if I had overcome that fear?”
“What if I had talked to that guy or girl?”
“What would I have? Who would I know? Where would I be?”
“What have I missed out on?”
“What are the experiences of a life FULL OF ADVENTURE that I’m not getting to see?”
But most importantly, “WHO WOULD I BE?”
The scariest thing is that, you will NEVER know the answer. You won’t even know what you’ve missed. Is that really the life that you want? I know I don’t.
You can keep going down that path that you’ve been on for years already. That path of waiting, hoping, and guessing. You can keep tapping in the dark, blindly stumbling and trying to find a solution on your own.
You can build on top of the YEARS of research, testing, and trial and error that I have put in.
You can trust in the expertise and experience that my top students expect from my programmes.
You can join the other guys and girls JUST LIKE YOU who are already taking action and getting RESULTS!
And you can, in fact… BECOME FEARLESS.
I’m going to give you 3 Easy Ways to Be Fearless:
1) The first thing you need to do is read more…
But not just any books. Focus on reading autobiographies. Try this: For 1 hour before you go bed, read an autobiography from one of the greatest thinkers and minds of all times. Here’s some of the books I would recommend: Jeff Bezos’ The Everything Store, Sam Walton’s Made In America, Arnold Schwarzenegger’s Total Recall, 50 Cent’s 50th Law, Kon Tiki. I could go on, but you get my point. There’s something that happens in the brain overnight when you read stories of true courage before you go to bed. I’ve been reading autobiographies before bed for years. You wake up and feel like you can take on the world. Try it tonight.
2) The next thing you need to do is have cold showers…
Now, I don’t mean every shower you have has to be cold. This is something you need to build up to over many months. When I first started doing this, it literally killed me! I remember shouting, “KAM, BE BRAVE! BE BRAVE!” in the shower. Practically then, start by having your normal shower, but before you get out, turn it to FULL COLD for just 10 seconds, then turn it back to warm or hot. Do this 3 times. Hit the cold water on the back of your neck. This is one of the most sensitive parts of your body. This will hurt you initially. But remember, you’re becoming FEARLESS. Overtime it will become easier, to the point where you’ll turn the shower on full cold and it’s normal. By doing this you will notice that your body will start to feel stronger. It will make you feel FEARLESS.
3) Another thing to do is watch WAR movies…
War movies are not something I was really ever into. But MAN, do they make you FEARLESS. Movies like Alexandra The Great, Fury, Saving Private Ryan, The Pianist. These are movies about courageous and brave people, fighting on the front line. When you see what these men and women had to face, you will LITERALLY become FEARLESS. Their courage starts to rub off on you. Things like approaching, rejection, what to say, these things will be forever in the past!
I could share another 20 things you could do to become FEARLESS, but try these first.
Let me know how you get on?
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